i just almost missed my train because i was taking a personality quiz to find out what fruit I am
we’ve taught girls to romanticise nearly everything a boy does. when i was younger i thought it was cute that boys chased the girl even after she said no. i loved it when after a girl moved away from a kiss, the guy would pull her back and force it on. i thought a guy saying ‘i won’t take a no for an answer’ was passionate and romantic. we’re literally always teaching girls to romanticise abusive traits.
today this girl in my class said she thinks it’s “cute” when domestic abuse victims remain in the relationship and in love with their partner despite everything like no it’s terrible and you’re part of the problem oh my god